Bump updates

31 weeks

32 weeks

33 weeks

34 weeks

How Far Along?: 34 weeks
Total Weight Gain: 24 pounds as of last 8/13
Any Baby Preparations? Thanks to all of my amazing baseball girlies, yes! Maverick got so many beautiful and practical goodies at his shower last week. Everything was so special :o) I have also been washing his blankies, onesies, burp cloths, and anything else that he will use right away. I must say that I will never forget folding that first load of washed baby clothes, Matt helped me and said, "I thought your clothes were hard to fold!" Lol. It was surreal to see my big strong hubby fold shirts the size of his hands :o)
Clothing Situation: I ordered some medium shorts and capris from Under Armour so that I can have some belly room! Mainly still long, stretchy tank tops and workout clothes with dresses mixed in.
Any Appointments? We go for my 36 week appointment and ultrasound next Wednesday, the 29th. I am verrry excited about this because we will be able to see him for the first time since 18 weeks! And also see how he is positioned. My doctor said she wouldn't check if I was dilated unless I am contracting like crazy, but perhaps we will gauge how big he is measuring/have some clue about what to expect the next month. I will go every week after the 29th!
Bodily Changes: Well, I can't see my hoohaa, lol. I have just been feeling very big and have majorly slowed down in all facets of life, walking, rising, etc. I have to position a blanket or pillow under the bump when I'm lying on my side for support. I've also been having Braxton Hicks multiple times a day. Oh the joys of the last few weeks...I am wanting him out of my belly!
Sleep: Depends on the night. And when Millie wakes up/Omaha cries. I already wake up to 3 needy babies!
Best Moment(s) of the Week: Maverick's baby shower, seeing Daniele & Emily, having Kristen here to keep me company while Matt was out of town!
Movement: Someone is NOT slowing down like the books say he is supposed to. Apparently I am to feel him less since he is "running out of room" to move but I think he is already being a rebel in utero. Mav is a wiggle worm/dancing fanatic. I especially enjoy when he hits my sciatic nerve, lady parts, lungs, or tries to emerge from my belly button. Daddy says he is antsy like Mommy, thanks Daddy.
Food Cravings: Still no crazy cravings. I can't eat as much which stinks.
Anything Making You Queasy? Just the videos they show in my Childbirth Education class, or being in a hospital in general. Should be a fun birthing experience! lol
Gender: BOY!!!
Mood: Excited, eager, anxious, happy, crazy, scatter brained, missing Matt.
Looking forward to: Matt being home, our appointment Wednesday, and anytime I get to catch up with friends!

August fun

Hello lovies! Its been a hot minute, lol. I am drafting this in Pages in attempt to write without the distraction of the internet...since my recent struggle has been trying to get 10 things done at once, which results in not getting anything done, and not being able to remember what I was trying to do in the first place! Ah the joys of pregnancy! 

It has been an eventful past 2.5 weeks, and I figured the best way to recap would be a bullet list :o) Since I last wrote...

• got to spend some time at home (FL!) with my mom baby shopping and doing girly things before Matt got in town to play the Rays. We successfully relocated the daybed into another room and set up the crib, and laid out the rug that I had ordered offline for the nursery. Thank God for moms!
• I am officially out of Invisalign (woohoo! no more orthodontic appliances!) 
• We were thankful to stay at the house and enjoy an off-day together, in which we shopped for half of the day for a dresser and rocker for the nursery, and came back empty handed. Matt. Was. Miserable. To say the least, lol. He has declared himself out of the planning process for Mav’s room. The rest of the day we spend lounging in the pool, enjoyed the sunset on Siesta, and grabbed some yummy Italian for dinner. I hope I redeemed myself due to the latter part!
• Relaxed and enjoyed the Vinoy...the food, the pool, St. Pete, and a Rays game thrown in. It was great to see my family and have them at the hotel with us :o)
• Karla’s Bridal Shower was on Sunday at the original Columbia restaurant in Ybor City...and it was a fabulous time! It was a gorgeous private room and the food was killer, as well as the company of my besties! I got to spend the rest of the day with Carli, Karla and Kelly at the Savery townhouse, snuggling on the bed and loving on the animals, just our style :o)

• My flight was delayed 6 hours home due to maintenance issues, but I got a future voucher and safely made it to Baltimore! Glad it was my last flight for a long time. 
• After crashing at 4 am, I woke up to Millie’s poop (explosive diarrhea) and pee on the carpet in the living room. Fabulous. When it rains it pours, right?!?! lol.
• Was thankful to have Matt home to help, somewhat, even though they went into a 14 inning game that night...sheer exhaustion. 
• I had my first Childbirth Education class at the hospital on Wednesday night, in which I was the only woman without a partner/significant other. Can I get an amen baseball/military wifeys!?! It was a grand time.
• Took Ducky to a specialist for his kidney issues, dragged Matt with me since I can’t make rational decisions as of late. Thankfully everything has come back normal with the exception of blood in his urine (still), but we are hoping he just has chronic inflammation and this is normal for him since he does not display any abnormal symptoms. Now we tackle the question of whether to run more tests (ultrasounds, etc) that he has already had done to see if there are new issues. I hate putting my baby through tests!
• Had a Wives Suite night at the field on Friday, it was so fun to catch up with all the ladies in the comfort of the indoors with free drinks and grub...my way to watch a game!
• Abby’s 3rd Birthday Party was Saturday morning at Port Discovery, can’t believe little Abigail Grace is 3! Liz and Jim had her party their last year and it was crazy to see how much the kiddos had grown in a year. And even more insane to think that in a little over a year we will be throwing Maverick’s 1st birthday party! 

• The game that night didn’t start until 10:15 due to weather delays...how fabulous!! Another late night for the Wieters house, and daddy able to help out a lot at home, not. 
• Sunday Funday= Tim McGraw/Kenny Chesney concert! And we got to see our beloved Tatums! We took a party bus from the field after the game down to FedEx field in DC. Although I was Sober Sally, it was an all around blast. Great friends, watching our men let loose and have a good time, mommas were able to let loose without kiddos, awesome music, Tim McGraw is a hottie, free food, multiple soda waters with lime from the bar, we got to go backstage!, dancing, the list goes on and on! Even the bus ride back was eventful considering there were poles...it was just hilarious. A great time had by all. 

• Monday we paid for it. Even though we got back by 1 AM, we were wiped out from our country music high, lol. And especially this prego momma! Thankfully Matt had off and we were able to sleep in, before going baby mode with my 34 week appointment and a private infant CPR/handling class back at home. We grabbed chinese at our local spot and Matt was asleep on the couch again at 8:30, haha. We had a very low key night to say the least.
• My high continued on Tuesday when I was able to see Emily and Hadley! We had dinner over at Liz’s with the kiddos and walked to get ice cream along the harbor. It was a great girls night, just what we needed!
• Wednesday was so very special, my O’s ladies hosted a shower for Maverick at a fabulous local restaurant, Lebanese Taverna. They know me too well for picking a yummy ethnic place! Everything was perfect, down to the personalized M n M’s that said “baby boy” and “Maverick” :o) I am so thankful to have such incredible friends and an amazing baseball family. I will have to post later with all of the details :o)

Phew, sorry for the regurgitation! Matt left for Detroit yesterday, so I have been getting things done at home, washing baby clothes, catching up on emails, etc. And eagerly awaiting the arrival of Kristen tomorrow night! She is coming to visit for a few days and I am so looking forward to just lounging around with her and catching up. I told her that I have slowed down a bit, lol. I am officially 34 weeks...6 weeks to go! I can’t believe it. I will post tomorrow with recent belly shots! Hope everyone is having a great Friday night. Sending lots of love from our couch in Baltimore :o) xoxo

T-minus 9 weeks!

30 weeks! The single digit countdown begins...!

How Far Along?: 31 weeks

Total Weight Gain: 20 smackaroos! I am only weighing myself at appointments, glad not to have a scale!

Any Baby Preparations?: Starting to really feel the reality of him coming, my mind is going into major nesting mode although I can't physically nest. I've been trying to really include Matt with reading material and we are having one of the ladies from the hospital come do a private at home class on an upcoming off day, which I'm looking forward to doing together :o) I also signed up for the Childbirth Education class which will meet once a week for the month of August. Hopefully I don't regret this decision...lol. Ordered a beautiful rug and a simple crib for the nursery in FL, can't wait to see them in person!

Clothing Situation: Since I have been home and been a hermit mostly, workout clothes and dresses. And only really wearing sports bras. Oh yes, and whenever I can I have on Matt's boxers, because they are so comfy and breezy! It has been so hot here. 

Any Appointments? Have my 31/32 week on Monday, going every 2 weeks now...crazy!

Bodily Changes: These 2 words might be the end of me...pubic symphysis. It is *not* fun. I was just experiencing pain/discomfort previously when I tried to run. Well, now it is almost all the time and incredibly worse when I do any physical activity. Sitting is uncomfortable. Laying down with a pillow in between my legs is uncomfortable. Getting in and out of bed is uncomfortable. WAH! I am coming to the realization that the rest of this pregnancy is going to be pretty sedentary. I've tried everything that I can think of that wouldn't aggravate it-- yoga, swimming, weight lifting, and it all does. Looks like my exercise will be walking Millie!

Sleep: If I'm really tired, which seems like all the time now, I will sleep soundly. But I still get up all the time to pee. And can't get comfortable. Thankfully we got a big fan in our room which has helped with the heat. Poor Matt hears me grunt all night as I switch from side to side!

Best Moment(s) of the Week: Talking with dear friends on the phone :o) And having Matt home! Our neighbors also had a really fun surprise 30th birthday party/Olympic kickoff last night. I love our street and all of the people on it!

Movement: Maverick is getting STRONG and BIG! His jolts occasionally take my breath away. He can literally move my entire belly. I have seen feet, limbs, fists move across my stomach, it is the coolest thing ever. I always tell Matt that he gets very active during the games (we have been watching a lot on the couch recently). Its like he is cheering for daddy, or wanting him to come home!

Food Cravings: carbs, desserts, sweet indulgences, lol. 

Anything Making You Queasy? the heat. 

Gender: BOY!!!

Mood: disoriented, crazy, emotional, scatterbrained, lethargic... anxious to meet my precious little boy!

Looking forward to: seeing my family and friends next week, Karla's bridal shower, Tim McGraw & Kenny Chesney concert on the 12th, Daniele & Tara coming in town, and my sweet baseball girlies throwing Mav's shower on the 15th! Its going to be a fun month!

I hope that everyone is having a great weekend...miss you all and love you lots! xoxo

Love, Ria

God of this City

Today I am thankful for...

- lazy, rainy days
- lunch with sweet Jess
- Matt's boxers that don't squish Maverick
- surprise visits from neighborhood cats
- restful sleep
- technology to talk to the hubbs while he is on the road
- opportunities for growth
- the Baltimore community
- amazing neighbors and their adorable kiddos
- bubble tea :o)
- new adventures for friends
- the power of prayer
- baby kicks
- seeing little feet and limbs
- snuggling with my boys
- candy/chocolate/desserts
- God's comfort and hand over loved ones' lives
- our neighborhood
- water
- volunteer callings
- voicemails :o)
- pictures that capture 1000 words
- the bunny that lives on our street
- perseverance
- curling up with a good book
- having the windows open
- looking at beautiful things

I met with the Director of the BARCS (Baltimore Animal Rescue & Care Shelter) yesterday, who has become a treasured friend. This woman is tough as nails, yet has the most gentle spirit. I could go on and on about her story and how she tirelessly works day in and day out for the innocent animals of Baltimore and their rights. Or you could just read about her revolution here, since it does such a better job than me trying to restate it! We always have the best time in her office just catching up, brainstorming, laughing, and sometimes crying. Every time that I go to the shelter I am affected on a another level emotionally, and I've been to a lot of shelters. Its an indescribable situation unless you witness it firsthand. I also often feel this way as I drive through the streets of Baltimore. A sense of hopelessness. Despair. Why, God? Wanting to wipe the slate clean and start over. Searching for a solution to the problem. How can one person help? Life is hard. Reality is tough. We need hope.

As I was driving home from the shelter, my mom told me about the Colorado shootings. I was in shock, and yet it seems that this is becoming a norm for our country to hear this type of news. My heart began to sink. And then I heard this song on the radio.

It is one of my favorites, and it immediately put things in perspective. Every time I hear it, it calms my soul. It helps me remember who is in control, and what we can do to help the situation. We can pray. We can follow His callings in our lives. We can use our gifts and talents to help others, whatever they may be. I feel so fortunate to be in two different cities each year. I thank God for placing us in both of these places, and giving us the opportunity to impact other's lives for good. To bring hope, or simply to bring a smile to someone else's face. If there is one thing that I have learned in life, it is that you are always placed somewhere for a reason :o) Despite the tragedies of this world, let us always be reminded of who holds the universe, and always keep looking up. 

...Greater things have yet to come, and greater things are still to be done in this city. Greater things have yet to come, and greater things are still to be done here. There is no one like our God. 

bumps & blessings

27 weeks, in Seattle

28 weeks, in Kansas City

28 weeks, in Baltimore

Maverick is getting bigger! The big 3-0 tomorrow :o) Today was a wonderful day. Although it reached the mid 100's in temperature, we managed to stay cool. Liz and I took a trip up to the "country" with Abby and Levi to visit Christina and the boys. We had a relaxing afternoon full of kiddo's laughter, yummy food, and catching up. It was great to just spend time together and help one another out while the guys are on the road. I admire all of my girlfriends with little ones so much, it is hard being a single parent for the majority of the time during the season. Strong women and strong kids, that is for sure!

When I got home I had some little blessings awaiting my return. My sweet hubby sent me flowers! I got teary eyed as I read the card :o) I opened the sweetest note from Lindsey in the mail (I absolutely adore snail mail :D), and the crazy surprise was a Tiffany's box...a silver spoon for Maverick sent by the owner of our rental from last year. It never fails to amaze me how God seems to place certain things in our lives when we least expect them. How incredible that these precious gifts arrived just when I had been feeling down...He is awesome! And His timing is always perfect. I just had to take a picture to share, even Ducky is enjoying the flowers :o) I hope everyone had a good hump day, love you all! xoxo

Trusting

Hello beautiful ones! I hope that everyone is having a great week :o) Matt and I got back last Wednesday night after a memorable time in Kansas City. It was a blessed time that we were fortunate to share with 2 of his teammates aka our extended baseball family. Since we have returned I have been catching up on 2 weeks of dirty laundry, loving on my babies that got back on Friday afternoon (the house was SO empty without them), and fallen back into the grind of accomplishing tasks. But fear not, I have been resting! I had my 29 week appointment and all is well, Mav is measuring right where he is supposed to be. Hallelujah that I am not anemic or a gestational diabetic! The doctor did tell me to cool it and stay put for a while, due to the amount of traveling I've been doing and some recent episodes :o( I swallowed this hard, but I know it is the best for my body and babe.  I am very upset because I had been planning on going to my dear friend's welcome home party this weekend after she returned home from her tour in Afghanistan. I am so thankful that she is safe and sound and able to rest and relax with her wonderful family...but I wish more than anything that I could teleport myself to NY and join in on the festivities. Lots of hugs, Jackie. I am there on the couch with you in spirit! :o)

Here are some of my favorite pictures from the past few weeks...

*loved* Pike Place Market...and the essence of Seattle

Matt and I exploring

View from the Seattle Duck Tour...hehe

dinner to celebrate the 4th of July...'Merica!

Kauffman Stadium...beautiful ceremonies in Kansas City

Audie, Liz & I...before the Red Carpet Parade :o)

I can never get him to keep on his uniform for a picture, but this smile will suffice :o)

This is a little blurry, but the babies sure had fun and bonded at Grandma & Grandpa Wieters' house!

I labeled this post "trusting" because I have been having to do a lot of it lately. One of the biggest struggles in my life is "letting go and letting God"...and that is exactly what He has been calling me to do. My days recently have been filled with feelings of frustration and I don't know why.  I've been easily overwhelmed, filled with conflicting emotions, and just plain exhausted. (Maybe this is normal for pregnancy?!? I don't want to scare anyone! lol) Its been a struggle for me to remain positive, and then I feel terribly guilty because I have no rational reason for feeling these things. I know that I am beyond blessed and have an incredible husband, family, and support group of loving friends. And above all I have a loving and patient Father who has led me safely to where I am today and who is with me at every moment. I feel like Satan has been attacking my spirit, and gosh darnit I am tired of it! Ultimately I know that He is in control, and that He has a plan for every emotion that I feel. Maybe I have been experiencing these things because I need to draw nearer to Him (isn't it always funny how God works :D). Meditating on scripture, staying in the word, and even writing this out has been helpful, but I still ask for your prayers. I feel selfish even asking, but please pray for His calming presence right now. And for me to draw nearer to Him each minute of the day, because He is the only source of continual peace and strength. 

For some unforeseen reason, I seem to not be able to relinquish control over all of the petty nuances in life...I know it is particularly annoying to Matt and those who know my control freak self! I pray that Maverick will help bring clarity and perspective to what really matters. And that all of the little things will fall by the wayside. Not that I am putting all of my spiritual-improvement hopes on my little man, but you know what I mean :o) God will guide me to become the woman and mother than I am supposed to be, and I can't wait to see what He has in store. 

"Do not worry about tomorrow! This is not a suggestion, but a command. I divided time into days and nights, so that you would have manageable portions of life to handle. *My grace is sufficient for you*, but its sufficiency is for only one day at a time. When you worry about the future, you heap day upon day of troubles onto your weak frame. You stagger under this heavy load, which I never intended you to carry. Throw off this oppressive burden with one quick thrust of trust. Anxious thoughts meander about and crisscross in your brain, but trusting Me brings you directly into My Presence. As you thus affirm your faith, shackles of worry fall off instantly. Enjoy my Presence continually by trusting Me at ALL times."  ~Matthew 6:34; 2 Corinthians 12:9; Psalm 62:8

~Jesus Calling by Sarah Young~

We made it!

We made it...to the third trimester! I can't believe that little Mav has been cooking for 28 weeks (heehee), and I praise God that I have had such a healthy and relatively easy pregnancy thus far. It is a huge gift that both Matt and I are so grateful for. With that said, I am relinquishing my guard.

I. AM. so. very. TIRED.

There, I said it, lol. I am no longer indefatigable, and am quickly realizing that my pre-baby travel schedule/daily approach to life is not meshing well with Maverick's growing routine. Never have I felt like I needed to literally sit down while walking a short distance in order to ease my body. Or so desperately desire to lay down and put my feet up because it is too uncomfortable to sit. Or not be able to think about next week's (or the next day for that matter) activities because it feels like my brain is going to explode. And all of this has happened so quickly, or maybe it has been a slow decline and I have just been so busy this past month that I didn't have time to realize it. But its here. Its the elephant in the room as I continue to TRY and complete my daily tasks and book travel arrangements and fly everywhere that I want to be. And the elephant is yelling at me to STOP, lol.

I think that I have been on an airplane more these past few weeks than I have been at home, and perhaps that has contributed mainly to this feeling of helplessness/exhaustion. I LOVE traveling and visiting family and friends, it is one of my life passions. And to have that not be an easy task is very challenging for me to swallow. I don't know if I thought I was an exception to the rule of pregnancy, where I wouldn't get fatigued and have to sacrifice my ways of doing things, but God is teaching me otherwise. Its like every force of nature is coaxing me to slow down, rest, sleep, and take it easy...none of which comes easy to me! I am so used to being on the go, go, go, getting things done, crossing off the to-do list, planning for future events, and now my body and brain feel like mush. I guess it is nature's way of prepping for the baby to come into this world and forcing mommy to take it easy before life gets even more crazier, lol. Don't even hold me to this post when I write back in 4 months and say that I am REALLY tired from lack of sleep because of a newborn, haha. But at least then my body will have completed its task as an incubator/vessel of life. Then I will just supply nourishment for the next how many months, but that is supplementary :o)

I have had such an amazing time these past few weeks-- Atlanta again for Lindsey's beautiful engagement shower, Seattle- where I indulged in bubble tea everyday, Vietnamese pho, endless seafood, and cool weather...I can't wait to post pictures! Right now I am in LA, which has been the perfect temperature accompanied by sunshine, Matt and I were able to go to dinner for the 4th of July, I have seen family and friends at games, and relaxed at the pool. Sunday we will head to Kansas City for the All-Star game, which is a huge blessing and honor. My amazing in-laws have taken our furbabies for the 2 weeks we will have been away, and although I miss them dearly, they are having a great time at grandma & grandpa's :o) I will post pictures of them as well enjoying themselves, and it will be in a future post since it just wouldn't be normal for me to post pictures in the present tense!

I hope that everyone had a festive and relaxing 4th of July. Missing you all and praying for each of you. Sending lots of love from my slowing down body and mind, lol. But it is worth it for baby Maverick! He is getting bigger and stronger each day which is all that matters :o) Just don't crack on me when I have to sit down after walking for 15 minutes, remember that I was a Division 1 athlete! Waaay back in the day ;D xoxoxo